Daily advice for HK immigrants to the West:
Regarding workplace sexual harassment, a lot more of white men have Asian female fetish than you imagine. It’s really “a thing” around here. They aren’t attracted to you as much as the “idea” of you being Asian and female. No one wants to be someone’s sex toy. If anyone even shows a hint of sexual harassment, it’s best to put an end to it instead of laughing it off to be “one of the boys”. As an immigrant, you may feel vulnerable and want to fit in. You shouldn’t sacrifice your dignity or worse to get ahead. It’s a tough world out there. We like to think that we’ve progressed a lot more than we have, but we have a long long way to go. Your dignity is all you have. Respect yourself and others will respect you.